Ladies, don’t let your man fool you! He wants a romantic Valentine’s Day as much as you do. In fact, men often have the need to feel loved and desired even more than us women!

So, to kick off his Valentine’s Day in style, here are a few ideas to get you started:

Gifts Galore
Today is the day to spoil him rotten! You want to start by following the classic traditions of showcasing your love on this very special day.

Consider a stuffed animal and if he’s a sports fan, try for a teddy bear wearing a jersey or t-shirt with his favorite sports team logo.

Buy him something he’s been wanting but would likely never buy for himself, like a music CD, DVD, clothing, or anything else that is affordable and bound to be a hit.

Don’t forget the chocolates, a romantic card or get a little wild and have a modestly sexy (not trashy) photo taken of yourself that is framed and ready to deliver!

Top it off with a romantic dinner, and it doesn’t have to be fancy food either! A drink that he loves (you know the sodas we fuss about him drinking if he is not suppose to have them…LOL), hot pizza and his favorite T.V show or movie will hit the spot!

If you’re in the position to purchase tickets to a game, event or concert (or anything else that takes him out on the town for a memorable date), do it!

You can keep the theme going by purchasing him items with hearts but remember, you want him to be able to enjoy these items long after Valentine’s Day so one pair of heart boxers or a small pack of heart shaped guitar picks is plenty!

Just don’t forget about him. It’s been deemed a “woman’s holiday” but we both know, it’s not, or rather it shouldn’t be.

He deserves to be loved, adored and pampered just as much as we do, so plan out a special “guy date”, and show him that you want Valentine’s Day to be about showing him how much you care.

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Another classic and romantic idea pulled straight from Saint Valentine’s little black book…MASSAGE! It’s no wonder that massages are so incredibly adored as our skin is the largest sensory organ in the entire body.

To prepare, you will need to purchase massage oil, lotion or massage bar, keeping in mind that your husband may prefer specific scents.

The next step is to set up a massage “bed”, which could be a flat tabletop, a padded exercise mat laid firmly on the ground (make sure to place a warm blanket or thick towel on top of it to make it more comfortable).

Make sure to eliminate any noise and distractions, by turning off phones, cell phones and other mobile devices, shutting off the T.V and if you have children, call Grandma to baby-sit! This is a time meant for just the two of you and you want it to be as peaceful and relaxing as possible.

Also keep in mind that you want the temperature in the room to be comfortably warm. Place a few warm towels near the area as well so that you can wipe your hands, prop your husband’s head or body more comfortably and in case of spills.

Turn on some romantic music, based on your husband’s personal preference. If he likes jazz, play some!

If he is a classical or country fan, load up a CD with their favorite music. Just keep it turned down.

You want it to be in the background with your hands in the forefront. Work your way all over your husband’s body, taking your time.

Consider adding fun props to the massage, including feathers, silk scarf or even a blindfold.

Get creative and put your own signature mark on this special night.

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If you have trouble being romantic, or perhaps you even feel awkward expressing your love openly, this is a fantastic way of getting your message across.

You can purchase a message in a bottle from Timeless Message – The Most Romantic way to say I LOVE YOU! where you can personalize the etched message that will be carefully entered into the glass bottle.

If you are considering the previous romantic idea of an intimate bath together, you can always leave the message in the tub where he can playfully find it.

You can also hand write the messages and leave them around for your husband to find (think… mirrors, car, his shoes!  – Anywhere and everywhere so that the entire day is filled with finding love notes from you.

One of my friends put their own little twist to the messages of love idea.  Rather than just messages professing her love, she created a romantic treasure hunt where each message was a clue as to what to do next.  The “treasure” led him to a romantic picnic dinner, and following, a sunset walk.

Planning out a romantic and memorable Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. 

On this day above all others, it truly is the thought that counts.

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Bubbly Intimacy

One of the most memorable Valentine’s Day that I have ever had was so simple to create but yet so incredibly intimate.  I had a bubble bath waiting for my husband when he got home from work .

Scented candles adorned all four corners of the tub, and a brand new fuzzy bathrobe, slippers and massage oils were carefully placed in a gift basket by the tub.

Oozing sensuality, I instructed him to get in and relax. I then began washing his body, starting with his shoulders, back and legs.

This is the stuff that dreams are made of, and it’s not only easy but affordable to set up.

Consider leaving your husband to soak and relax while you escape to set up a delicious meal.  There’s nothing better after a warm and relaxing bath than a hearty meal to finish the night off.

If it’s later in the day, lead your husband into the bedroom where you have the traditional setting of flowers, chocolates, music and serenity, while you dance with him (slowly!).  All your husband wants on Valentine’s Day is your attention, your acknowledgement, and of course, you.  The best memories are always from the simple gestures of love and devotion, so don’t over think it.

Look deep into his eyes, give him your full attention.  Take your time with every little thing you do.

When washing his body, circle his skin slowly with a new, clean sponge.  Wash his hair thoroughly including combing it out, and massaging the scalp.

Purchase bath oils that will provide a relaxing and silky bath (I love Calgon and the Weleda Body Oils Essential Kit for massage).  Try out a fun and sensual bath game, and make sure to warm up his towel by throwing it in the dryer for a few minutes before he is ready to get out.

If your husband prefers showers, you can spice it up just the same.  Opt for a nice, candlelit shower with music, candles or incense.

You can have a lot of fun with this and it will be a night to remember.

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Music Of Your Heart

Music plays a significant role in every romantic setting and what better way to show your love than by creating a compilation CD for your husband with all of the songs that remind you of your unyielding love for each other.

With the accessibility of audio technology, you could record a special message at the beginning or end of the CD that describes what he is about to hear OR inject special messages in between songs that describe why that specific song reminds you of your love, and what your husband mean to you.

Purchase printable CD covers from your local store and create a personalized cover for your CD.  Add your hubby’s name to it and the date and year, so that you can both remember the exact Valentine’s Day in which it was given.

The songs don’t have to be just the regular old songs either.  Create a more personalized version of your CD by including songs from movies you’ve watched together, or from your first date.

What was the song that was playing on the radio when you had your first date? First dance? Include music from your wedding, from the birth of your children.

Music is part of all of our lives and it lives in the backdrop of our memories.  Bring it to the forefront, show your husband you have been paying attention (don’t we as wives always pay attention? LOL)  and give them a homemade gift that they will always remember.

Consider slipping the CD in their car for a fun surprise and make sure to wrap it up in pretty red paper!

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Linen Romance

One of the most traditional and classic ways of starting off a special Valentine’s Day starts before we even put our feet to the ground.   Serving the love of your life breakfast in bed is not only romantic, but it will put him in the right mood for the remainder of the day.

Even if you both have busy schedules and full work days, you can treat him to a special breakfast a bit earlier before you usually awaken.  Set your alarm clock and rise up, you are going to make him an incredible breakfast in bed!

You could also switch it up to dinner in bed, which can be even more romantic as you’re both winding down from the day, the lights are low and soft music is playing in the background.

Choose some comfortable (but sexy!) sleep wear, crawl into bed and share a romantic meal. Make sure that you set up the right atmosphere with clean sheets, scented candles, light music and turn off the T.V or phones. You want a quiet and intimate dinner between the two of you.

What you eat isn’t important, and you can adjust the menu based on your hubby’s personal preferences.  Make sure it’s his favorite meal, and make it last!  Start off with finger food appetizers like fruits including strawberries, mangoes or raspberries. You can add biscuits, French bread or home made rolls (if you’re up to the task!) into the mix, accompanied with cheeses and perhaps dip.

You could twist things up by creating a romantic picnic lunch by spreading a blanket on your rec room floor (or rent out a hotel room for the night so that you’re able to give your hubby a change of scenery).

Load a picnic basket up with your favorite goodies and make sure to set up a chilled bottle of wine or champagne.  If you aren’t sure what to purchase, consider a fruit medley wine such as strawberry wine. If you don’t want an alcoholic beverage then sparkling white or red grape juice will work great! (You can find this in any supermarket where the bottled juices are) Serve it in a wine glass and you are good to go!

Consider packing in a dessert, either whipped cream and strawberries, cupcakes with sprinkles, Valentine’s cookies, anything that really celebrates the mood and represents your special day.

After your dinner, offer your partner a massage with oils to complete this romantic excursion. What I have done in the past is fill a foot tub (purchased at any dollar store) with warm bubbly water, pour in your favorite oil (I like massage oils but olive oil or any oil that is good for the skin will do) and rose petals. Let your hubby place his feet in the tub and use the massage oil to rub his feet and tell him how much you love and appreciate everything that he does.

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Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and this year, you want to make sure it’s a memorable one.  Starting tomorrow we will explore different ways for a romantic Valentine’s day we and our hubbies will never forget! You may choose to do one each day or pick one idea just for that one day.

Wouldn’t you like to give a little more than chocolate and cards this year?  You want your hubby to feel special for all that he does, to see that you put in a real effort this year, and most importantly – to demonstrate your love and commitment to your husband.

It doesn’t matter if this is your first Valentine’s Day together or your 20th, it’s the one day a year reserved for couples.  It gives us a chance to slow down the pace of the daily grind and to focus our attention on the one person who means the world to us.

The origin of Valentine’s Day is steeped in mystery but legend has it that Saint Valentine sent the first Valentine’s card while locked away in prison after trying to help Christians escape the harsh Roman prisons.

The valentine’s card he sent out was to a young woman who just happened to be his jailer’s daughter.  She visited with him secretly during his confinement. Because they didn’t have long to talk, he would hand her a small card with loving messages, and the beginning of what we now call “Valentine’s Cards”.

Saint Valentine sent his final card the morning of his execution with the scribbled words,  “Forever in life and death, your Valentine”.

Today, we celebrate Valentine’s Day in a similar way, with the stores filled with your choice of heart filled delicacies, stuffed teddy bears, romantic poetry inked into the material of countless Valentine’s cards that speak to the heart and represent our deepest emotions.

This series, the “Romantic Ideas For a Memorable Valentine’s Day” was written for the romantic in all of us, and even if you don’t think you have what it takes to pull off an incredible memorable Valentine’s Day, you might be surprised at just how thoughtful you really can be once you’re given a bit of direction.

With these ideas, you will leave an everlasting impression in the mind and heart of your beloved husband.

From classic and traditional ideas that are always sure to win their hearts to unusual and creative ideas that will add a spark to your relationship, you will have everything you need to celebrate your love in a very special and unique way.

So join me in this pursuit of romancing our hubbies this year for the best most memorable Valentine’s Day ever!!! I look forward to sharing this series with you as I have tried these ideas myself in my own marriage and I must say they have worked amazingly…God Bless!

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Okay whew! I have changed my blog design I know three times this week…trying to find the right “feel” that represented me and what it is I wanted to get through when viewing. I finally made some adjustments and now: HERE I AM! I am so excited to be sharing this blog post today as it is dear to my heart.

On yesterday my husband and I celebrated the anniversary of the day he proposed to me. YAY! I know…we as women tend to celebrate all types of anniversaries but this one was very special. See if any of you have read my testimony then you will understand.

I remember it so vividly…we talked the entire week about going out to dinner at the Olive Garden that Friday and I was so excited. You see, I did not suspect anything because he always had something romantic planned for us. As we were driving he started talking about how he did not think he was ready for marriage because of everything he had been through in the past. Of course at the time I told him “I understood” but inside I was not only crushed but I was fuming! LOL

Once we got to the restaurant we were seated at a table and the waitress brought us our salad and bread sticks. Of course, I did not say much at this point (I was a little disappointed) and asked if he could bless the food before we began to eat. As we were praying he started to pray this extra long blessing and although I was trying to concentrate on blessing our food, I could not help think “why is he praying so long over this food?” My stomach was growling and I wanted to eat! LOL

When he said “Amen” and I repeated “Amen”…I opened my eyes to find him down on one knee (in front of the entire restaurant looking on) with this beautiful diamond ring open in front of me asking me to marry him! *Fans myself and faints* Grinning from ear to ear I said “YES YES YES!”:)

I could not believe what he did…he had me fooled big time as I was not expecting that! LOL I am happy to say that we will celebrate our 5th year wedding anniversary on March 31, 2012 and it has been the best 5 years I have ever experienced.

He is a man after God’s own heart and I LOVE him dearly!

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